I understand as I had a major fall which resulted in surgery. It put fear in me that I didn’t have before and it was several months before I was able to ride again.
Fear is not always a bad thing as it can keep us safe, but it can also limit us at times so you’ve got to be aware of that and know when to push forward or hold back.
I used to be one of those that would ride anything and it did not bother me when they acted up, but after my riding accident things changed as I became more aware of how the horse reacted on the ground.
You don’t have to give up riding as there are things you can do to get back in the saddle and feel comfortable again. Here are some things that will help you gain confidence and get back in the saddle.
- Spend time with your horse getting to know and enjoy them on the ground.
- Get good at ground work, this will help you find out where the holes are when riding. Horse Agility is a great way to build confidence in you and your horse.
- Visualize yourself having a successful and fun ride. If you can’t do that because your mind goes to the negative then watch a video of someone else riding, but imagine yourself as the rider. Feel yourself riding the horse going through the motion and hold the reins as if you were riding. Play your favorite music when doing this.
When you get to the point where you feel you’re ready to get back in the saddle start in an enclosed area. If need be have a friend who is good with horses there to support you. The first day you may only be able to put your foot in the stirrup and step up then back down doing this a few times.
The second day you may feel confident enough to sit on your horse and maybe take a few steps. If need be have your friend walk along beside you. On the third day maybe take a lap around the pen at a walk and then build from there. When doing all of this make sure you remember to breathe as some people will hold their breath.
When you hold your breath it will create tension in the body and your horse will feel that. If you have to sing as this really helps relax you and you can’t hold your breath when you sing.
Another technique that can help you move past the fear is EFT (emotional freedom technique). EFT is an emotional of acupuncture. I’ve used it and it really does work.
Bottom line is don’t let anyone push you or make you feel bad trying to get you back into the saddle before you’re ready. Some may tell you just suck it up and get back on my suggestion is to ignore them because if you get back on before you’re ready that could spell disaster.
Like I said before have fun and get to know your horse on the ground you will be happy you did as it will make a difference for you and your horse!
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